"Misery is a communicable disease."
Complaining is 1) pretending that a choice that is not availalble, is available, or, 2) is being unwlling to act on a choice that is available. Instead of blaming and bemoaning a situation, identify a reasonable risk and take it. It will either be a win or a learning, and both are fine.
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